Others people’s kids
Ekrem Tairov was mobilised to serve in the Russian army in October 2022. The draft office allegedly hinted that there are two options: frontline or prison. Ekaterina, his wife, at the time was pregnant with their third child which prompted the authorities to even withdraw the draft notice at the beginning of the “partial mobilisation” — so that he could bring up his many kids. They changed their minds later, however.
“When he was told in September that he could return home, we were all very happy,” Ekaterina recalls. “Ekrem was not champing at the bit to fight in the special military operation. We hoped to have another child for four years. And then I finally got pregnant when suddenly the [partial] mobilisation was announced…”
According to the woman, the events rapidly unfolded after her husband received his second draft notice on 13 October:
“My husband was hauled away the next day after the medical exam. I complained to the prosecutor’s office, travelled to the military base in Sevastopol where he was housed. I wrote to Crimea’s head [Sergey] Aksyonov. But I was rejected everywhere: I was told that we don’t have three kids, that I was only pregnant with the third, and that didn’t count. Meanwhile, Ekrem at the time was practically the only breadwinner in the family: I took my maternity leave.”
Tairov and his wife worked in a psychiatric facility in Crimea’s Bilohirsk (Belogorsk in Russian): he was a security guard, she was a nurse. This is where they met each other. Ekrem was still in Crimea until January for training and then he was sent to the frontlines.
“He is guarding the new territories,” Ekaterina says. “I don’t know which frontline he is stationed at. He rarely calls and only says that it’s not good there. I press on with my attempts to bring him back: